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Just So: Why Neurodivergence Can Look Like OCD

August 17, 2023

Some neurodivergent children can be very particular about routines, the position of items, which clothing items should be worn together, and other non-sensory specifics. (Sensory needs are a separate issue). These things can appear inconsequential to other people, and may be considered indicative of OCD. A number of young neurodivergent people are even diagnosed as having OCD. How many of these diagnoses are accurate is questionable. The DSM-5 specifically defines Obsessive Compulsive Disorder as not[…]

To Warn or Not to Warn?

July 18, 2023

Many neurodivergent kids, particularly autistic kids, rely on routines, schema, and advance warnings, to prepare themselves adequately for what’s ahead. Knowing – even vaguely – what to expect, gives them the opportunity to access the strategies and coping mechanisms required for a particular situation. However, the same children are often prone to anxiety about impending change and new experiences. So what happens when we, as parents or teachers, know things aren’t going to be as[…]

Big Battles vs Little Wins: Trust

May 17, 2023

Sometimes it feels like there are major sticking points with neurodivergent kids, and that no matter how hard you try you can’t avoid the conflict or trauma. You can be calm, and loving, and logical, but it doesn’t seem to help. Your spouse or partner might not have the same complications over the same issue, and you might feel you’re replicating their approach but getting the opposite reaction. It can feel like an obvious issue[…]